One-night stands can be unpredictable (especially if drinking is involved). Like a one-night stand, feelings can be unexpected.
Maybe you’ll wake up in the morning and smile, thinking about him last night. Perhaps it was something more significant than sex for you. But what about him?
This can be more difficult to determine. But this is impossible.
Some guys don’t express their emotions and feelings. Instead, they show how they feel with their actions and body movements.
To help you determine if he’s more than just a one-night stand, here are 12 ways he’s falling for you.
1. He calls you the next day
One-night stands have an obvious endpoint. They only last one night. It’s almost to be expected at this point, though it’s still a little disappointing when a guy doesn’t contact you in the morning.
But how unexpected when he contacts you tomorrow.
A simple “Last night was fun” text might be enough, but if he goes out of his way to call you, it could be a sign that he doesn’t see you as just a random person anymore.
Don’t call people with one-night stands unless they’re interested in something more. If he calls you the following day, that’s good for both of you.
2. Surprises you with breakfast
Usually, the person you slept with last night can excuse himself and leave before he wakes up. In that case, you don’t need to go to the morning talks when you are both sober and understand what you just did.
But if you wake up to the smell of bacon and eggs, that’s another story. Maybe it’s just not in the movies.
If a guy wakes you up with breakfast in bed, it’s already a big sign that he likes you more than you expect. If you still doubt that he likes you, ask yourself this:
What guy would stay over, walk through your kitchen, and cook you both breakfast?
There are not many of them.
3. Takes You to Your Place
When you’re out drinking, and he says, “let’s get out of here,” you expect him to take you to some hotel room, or he might even ask if you want to go to your place.
Thanks to this, he can hide without a trace in the morning. But he probably asked you to decide for him.
It means he wants to see you in the morning. Maybe she wants to say goodbye to you before you go or even prepare some food for herself and you.
4. He Adds You on Social Media
Guys usually want to limit or even avoid contact with people they had one-night stands with. In any case, they were looking for nothing more than some dynamic company. So why would they bother to contact them?
But it can be different.
You move your phone and then see a notification: this is it. Wants to add you as a friend; A surprise, to be sure, but welcome.
While it’s not good to jump to conclusions, it shows that he’s noticed enough that he wants you to be a part of your life — even if it’s digital.
Now, if you’re wondering how you should approach correspondence with this guy so that you can genuinely attract him to you, then you need to remember that men choose the women they fall in love with.
These women evoke a sense of excitement and want to haunt them with what they say in their texts.
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5. He asks you on a date
Maybe after you’re both awake and he’s ready to go, you strike up a conversation. Then he says he wants to let you try the food at his favorite restaurant because he thinks you might like it.
Maybe that was the question he asked the day after you.
If he didn’t want to get to know you better, he wouldn’t ask you for lunch or dinner; something about you makes him want to see you again.
6. He wants to know you
You start talking in the morning. He starts asking you more about yourself. It’s not about how he was last night; it’s more about who you are.
He wants to know what you do, why you chose that job, your biggest dreams, and what you don’t like. Not this kind of banter between people who will never see each other again.
Although he skipped a few things the night before, now he almost wants to “restart” your “relationship.”
If he’s asking the same questions that your previous partners have asked you, it could signify that something romantic is going on beneath the surface.
7. Conversation is easy
Perhaps you were a little tipsy in communicating, but you can share soberly in the early morning. It’s no wonder you both take such good care of each other.
The conversation flows from one topic to another. He almost stops feeling like a guest and becomes more like a true friend.
You talk about anything and everything. You laugh at each other’s jokes and share the same thoughts and ideas.
And even if you both disagree, you can both play and tease each other about whose side is right, like whether pineapples on a pizza are a good idea or not.
8. He cuddles you
When you’re awake in bed, he may surprise you: he’s close to you. This kind of healthy intimacy isn’t usually something that guys just looking for sex do.
Why does he want to keep you close if he plans to leave you?
It’s almost as romantic as he does. Comb your hair with your fingers; care about yourself. She might not say it, but her actions speak, “Hey, I think I like this person.”
If he squeezes you like he wants to protect you, that’s a better sign. For boys, it’s all about unleashing their inner hero.
I learned about it from heroic instinct. According to relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating insight is about what motivates men in relationships. This concept is ingrained in their DNA.
And this is something that most women have no idea about.
Once activated, these drivers turn men into the heroes of their lives. They feel better, love more, and feel more potent when they find someone who can make it work.
Now you are probably wondering why it is called “heroic instinct”? Do guys have to feel like superheroes to cheat on a woman?
It’s not worth it. Forget about Marvel. You won’t need to play the damsel in distress or buy your man a cappella.
The truth is, it doesn’t cost you anything, nor is it a sacrifice. You’ll touch a part of it with just a few small changes in how you approach it. No woman had ever felt him before.
The easiest thing to do is check out James Bauer’s excellent free video. He shares some easy tips to get you started. For example, sending him a 12-word text instantly triggers his hero instinct.
Because that’s the beauty of the heroic instinct. It’s just a matter of knowing the right words to make him understand that he wants you and only you.
9. He becomes a gentleman
He may have played the trick last night to get you to sleep with him, but in the morning, you will see that this is what he does. When you wake in the morning, he prepares food for you and fixes all your clothes and things.
When you walk into his kitchen, he stands up to greet you. Then he pulls out a chair for you to sit down. Then he opens the door before he opens it for you.
Seeing him so chivalrous might catch you off guard, but it means he respects you.
10. He’s suddenly clumsy around you
When you wake up in the morning, he suddenly looks tired. You see that he is shy and reserved. He drops his phone and laughs hard as you both talk.
Then he looks around and frantically starts cleaning up the embarrassing things. You might think this is a strange change in behavior, but it could just be his sober self-awareness that he doesn’t want to mess it up with the hot guy they just slept with.
While some guys want to keep calm and look confident, she can’t help. If he didn’t care about you, he wouldn’t care if you saw his pile of dirty laundry or how messy his desk was.
11. Makes time to see you
Maybe a few days after you meet, you will go about your business until something suddenly surprises you. He comes to your office and surprises you with the gift of your favorite snack that you mentioned to him during the transition.
– You did not think that he was caught, nor did you believe that there was important information that he needed to know.
Even this can shake you.
He went out of his way: make a mental note of your favorite snack, go out, find it, buy it, then drive to your office to have it delivered to you in person. If he weren’t at least interested in you, he wouldn’t be making such an effort.
12. He tells you
If he’s asking you out, talking to you, and listening to what you have to say the day after your date, that’s not enough for you; maybe that’s the kicker. Maybe you’re on your second or even third day at this point. Your suspicion is already high.
Then he hints to you that he has feelings for you. It couldn’t be more precise than that.
What to do next?
After telling each other that you have mutual feelings, there is concern about where to take your new “relationship.” Suppose you’re even willing to call it that at this point.
How are you now? Well – do you plan to be friends with prayers? Or give something more serious a real shot?
These are all essential things that should not be left to the mark. Now is your chance to talk to him about it as honestly as possible.
But if you want to do something specific with this guy, then you need to move on to your man in a way that empowers both him and you. I mentioned the concept of heroic instinct earlier – by directly appealing to her primal instincts, she’ll genuinely want more than just a one-night stand with you.
And since this free video reveals precisely how to stimulate the hero instinct in your man, you can make this change starting today.
With incredible insight from James Bauer, he’ll see you as the only woman for him. So, if you’re ready to take the plunge, watch the video now.