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10 Signs Your Ex Is Leaving The Door Open (And You Might Eventually Get Back Together With Them)

It isn’t easy when you have to live apart from someone. You two were a team, best friends, and now you can’t trust them.

You can’t talk on the phone, text, or email; they don’t have to check with you. They’re there when they want, but it feels like they’ve just stopped cursing your life.

The pain of separation is unbearable, even if you know it will come. But sometimes, people leave the door open for a second.

Even if they advance, they can’t bring themselves to cut you off completely.

Here are some signs that your ex has left the door open, and there is a chance that you might get back with them in the future.

1. They contact you

Even though you broke up, they want you in their life if they keep in touch with you. They will check in with you occasionally and may even send you periodic SMS or email updates.

This is a good sign that they left the door open. After all, they usually don’t want to hear anything more about you when you break up with someone.

So, if they keep in touch with you, they know you can return to their life.

2. They still want to sneeze with friends and family

After a breakup, people go out of their way to completely distance themselves from their former friends and family.

They don’t want to be reminded of relationships they got rid of and want to move on quickly. But if your ex keeps in touch with your friends and family, they aren’t cutting you off completely.

They still want to be involved in your life and have good relationships with the people who are important to you. It also means that they keep their options open, even if they seem to be moving away from you.

So, if your ex keeps in touch with your friends and family members, there’s a good chance that he might want to meet you in the future.

3. They come from time to time

Do they drop by your house to see how you’re going? Or do they “accidentally” attack your favorite hangouts?

They don’t try to push their way into your life but hang with you and keep things the same. And this is a good sign that they don’t completely give up on being together, and maybe they change their minds.

As we said above, when we break up with someone, we usually try to cut ties with them immediately. Breakups are complicated and usually the best way to get over someone.

But if they drop by to see you at home or your favorite haunts, it’s a sign that they still want to be in your life and keep the door open.

4. They talk about getting back together

They don’t say outright that they want you back, but they talk about what the future would be like if you two got back together. It means they still have feelings for you.

Of course, maybe they are optimistic that they can get back together in the future. Moreover, it shows that even if they think about the future, they could change their attitude towards you.

First and last:

Maybe you broke up badly. Then they got angry and did not think positively of you. But now? And now they’ve backed off, maybe thinking you’re the right person for them.

They changed their feelings and thought about you.

If you want your ex back, you must change the emotions they communicate with you and create a whole new relationship with you.

They may interact with you in a new light if they still have feelings for you.

In this short video, James Bauer gives you a step-by-step method to change how your ex treats you. It reveals the texts you can send and the words that will stir something deep within them.

Because once you paint a new picture of what your life together could be, those emotional walls won’t stand a chance.

5. They are still grieving the breakup

Maybe they told you that they are bored without leaving. They realized what a good thing they had. Life isn’t the same without you.

If they tell you this directly, they’re not only leaving the door open, they’re asking you back. Or maybe they wonder what could have been different or what they should have done differently to keep things together.

Whatever it is, expressing thoughts like this shows that they are ready to start things with you in the future.

Of course, this is a good sign that your ex wants to get back together while they act like it’s not happening.

6. They talk about you a lot and want to see you again

Still, if you’ve caught wind of your friends remembering you and talking about you, you’re on their minds.

Sure, maybe they tell themselves they don’t care or are interested in getting together. But at the same time, this is a good sign that things can change later.

7. They asked their friends about you

It’s true that even if your ex doesn’t want to be in direct contact with you, they’re talking to your friends. They’re not telling them they still want to get together; they want to hear about you and how you’re doing.

This means that it is possible to get back together later.

After all, if your ex didn’t want to get back together with you, they wouldn’t want to know what you’re doing. Maybe you and your ex were soulmates, and they cannot help but feel strong emotions for you and want to know what’s going on in your life.

They will likely keep the door open to getting back together with you.

8. They are very interested in your love life

If (the polytheists) get close to you, (what will happen to you) then (about what) will they ask?

Now don’t get me wrong. You probably shouldn’t read too much into the general chatter. But if they’re asking you about your love life and who you’re currently dating, that’s a sure sign that they’re trying to figure out if you’re single or not.

What is the main reason for this?

They most likely regret losing you and want to know if you are likely to start things over. I don’t know what does if that doesn’t keep the door open.

Now it is important to remember:

It’s normal for friends to ask at least one question about their dating life. Could you not read too much into it?

But if they keep bugging you about your dating life and seem overly enthusiastic about it, they’re interested in finding out if you’re single.

They don’t want to find out if you’re dating someone because that would close the door on things that could dominate. In fact, in my experience running to my exes, we usually ask general questions like how life goes or works. But love is rarely the central theme.

Bottom line, if they’re constantly asking you about your love life and how you’re doing, they’re not only regretting breaking up with you, they’re probably looking to start a relationship.

9. They make excuses to contact you

Maybe they want to get back together, but they know it won’t be a quick or easy process. They know that it takes some time and effort.

This means they probably want you back, even if they don’t want to admit it. But what do they do to make it all happen?

You are making excuses to talk to you, of course!

For example, maybe they have weekends when no one else is around, and they want their friend to do everything. They don’t have anyone they want to spend time with and want someone they can spend time with.

So, if your ex is making excuses to contact you, there’s a good chance they’re keeping the door open to getting back together.

10. They still call you every day

Maybe you’ve moved on with your life and become a new person, but your ex hasn’t wholly surrendered by getting back together.

They have been contacting you regularly since they broke up, and it looks like they will stop soon. Maybe they think they’re busy and haven’t had time to call you. But suddenly they start calling you every day!

Calling is a way to get back in touch with you. Making an effort to call you signals that they want to see how you’re doing and to be back in your life.

For now, maybe just as friends. But they probably keep the door open if they want to be friends. Not just by holding the door open, but if they call regularly, they are serious about getting back together with you.

11. He still has feelings for you

After all, if your ex is contacting you regularly and thinks your relationship is worth continuing, there’s a good chance they still have feelings for you.

If you analyze how they talk to you, you should be able to tell if they like you. Are they overly affectionate? Do you care about everything you say? Remember the good old days?

Use your intuition to determine how they feel. You probably dated a while ago, so you should intuitively know whether they want to get back together with you from their behavior and body language.

Regardless, even if they don’t admit it, their constant contact with you is a good sign that they want to get back together.

And if they don’t contact you, but ask friends and family about you, that’s a good sign too.

In the end, it turns out like this:

– Are they still thinking about you?

If they are contacting you, then they are thinking about you. They’re still thinking about you if you’re still friends with them.

(O Messenger of Allah!) If they (you) ask two people (about you), know that they think you are.

And if they show that they still think about you, they’ve probably left the door open to getting back together with you in the future.

Now, if you want to get them back, then what can you do?

In this case, there is only one thing – it will rekindle their romantic interest in you. I learned about it from Brad Browning. He has helped thousands of men and women get their axes back. He goes by the moniker of “the relationship geek.”

No matter what your situation is—or how bad your situation is after a breakup—she’ll give you some helpful tips you can put into practice right away.

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